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Life Is Made Up Full of Choices and Decisions
“At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That’s how we’re made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them.” — Grey’s Anatomy
When I think about my own life and the boundaries that I have made up with other people, I think about it and I feel that I have boxed myself in rather than boxed somebody out.
Yes, life is messy that’s how we are made, that’s how the world is made. And the only way for us to live this messy life is actually just to accept it. Accept that life will be messy, accept that there will be hard times, that there will be failures, and accept that there will be days when you are on your bottom.
At some point in life, you have to make a decision. A decision where you get up and do better, do more, be alive, be present and do what you really want to do in this life without fear of failure. Because failure is what changes us and makes us stronger.
Every single day in our life is full of choices. A choice of what to eat, a choice of what to wear, a choice whether to go to a job or not, a choice to speak to somebody, a choice to speak up and say what you feel, a choice…
